Man is the human being that was created by God to always protect and pour much of love for the woman. But sometimes man can be fabulously pain in the ass for woman. But remember ladies, every man action have his own reason. Based on my million years observations with men and dealing with man every single day, i can say that, Man did something for a reason! Man's action can be easily predict by us,but Ladies, you have to remember, man is about read between the lines. Man can be very fussy and more DIVA-ish than woman. Trust me, i was once had a chance to live with this super MEGA DIVA MAN and trust me i feel like i want to jump out from the 24th floor of Wisma Saberkas!So annoying!Full with drama and even now when i talk about him here i feel like i want to puked!Uweek! Well that how it works, Man sometimes can become UNPREDICTABLE but sometimes they can become VERY PREDICTABLE .
This is the things that i learn from most of the guys that i know and i would love to share it with you Ladies, Ladies ready, and i will tell you the 2 situations about what man's action that we women never know what is the "READ BETWEEN TWO LINES"
1) " You not pretty with that new haircut"
Have you ever cross with this situation? The reason why man don't like when his girl had a new haircut is because he get jealous when all the attention on the girlfriend but not on him and you. For meaning, usually when the girlfriend cut her hair, she will get the attention more and people keep on asking "Why you cut your hair?" "Where you cut your hair?" "Your hair really suits you" ,this kind of question really make him feel insecure with the relationship. He scared with the perception that the environment people think about you and his love relationship. In the guy world, for them, when the girlfriend cut her hair, for meaning there is something wrong with the relationship. Man always think negative first and then he will think about the positive side of the issue * this is only based on making decision for man in a relationship not from other perspectives,if your man keep on thinking the negative first on all aspects,die lah you!Not husband material langsung!*So ladies, if your man mentioned that he don't like your hair, think positively because he really do care about the relationship. Look at this side, hair can grow, same thing with your relationship. Relationship will grow very healthy if you keep on using the right "conditioner" think positive k ladies? Don't simply jump to conclusion saying that, "HE DON'T ACCEPT ME AS WHO I AM" that is bullshit. No such term for not accepting for who you are in a relationship, because not accepting you as a human being is not a relationship, it is a ONE NIGHT STAND. Got it?
2) "Don't keep on facebook-ing while we are together, plus the "check-in" thing, sakai li "
Ever cross with this situation? Ladies, come on! The man need the attention on him! Not on your facebook! After-all if you keep on updating ur facebook using ur phone he can feel very in-secure. Have u ever think what was inside his mind while you "check-in" or update your status in facebook?
The boyfriend :
a) "Am i that bored ?"
b) " Is she update bad things about me and share it with her friends in facebook?"
c) " Why she need to tell everyone, where i bring her for dinner?what if her friends judge me if i bring her to inappropriate place for dinner?"
Relationship is about communication. If you need compromise, that is marriage! Marriage and relationship are two different things! For the first stage, look into each other eyes. Try to speak with your eyes, then hold his hand not your blackberry or your phone. Try to reconnect yourself with him, not connecting yourself with 3G or WIFI, you will experience the love sharing all over the place. After-all once a while u can check your facebook or twitter but to keep on checking your BB and your twitter & FB can make him fed-up with it. He want to spend time on you, talking about nonsense things, telling you jokes that u will never get it, but as girlfriend, you should follow his flow, you choose to be in a relationship, this is what relationship people do. So remember ladies, CONNECT YOURSELF WITH HIM, not CONNECT YOURSELF with your 3G.
My dear ladies, remember, its always our nature as woman to blame the man when something happened, but remember, every action that he did, there is a reason behind it. CONFIRM! It is our nature also to guide them but not to solve them because solving and guiding them are two different things!You cant change the person for who he is, but you can guide him. Try to talk calmly with him to avoid the fight become more complicated. After-all fighting with each other can make your relationship become stronger.
With my mind,
Apple Nicol Luna
