Why Is It Easy For Men To Play That Rihanna Unfaithful Song?

            This hit song really HIT me once. I was a cheater before. I know how to play the cheating game. I create that game. The feelings of worried and please at the same time are something that i can describe exactly when I wear my 5 inch LACE high heels. Look fabulous yet its not glamorous.Very in pain!Huge PAIN! The same thing with cheating scene, when you cheat, it feels so good but still it hurts. Based on my million years of observation there’s always facts and reasons why he cheated on you.

Men do not realize the power of love from a woman that is truly in loved. If she can buy you an island she will, so that everything is only about, YOU AND HIM. There is no better love when a man truly in loves with a woman. Literally it feels like, LOUIS VUITTON having this 70% sale and buys 1 free 1 promotion. True love is all about listening and believing what your partner says. If you ever think of want to unfaithful with your partner there are lot better thing than being unfaithful and screwing up your whole life.

Men who are not faithful to one woman are not serious about their relationship.Swingers is a huge NO NO in the world. It is hard to accept that a man would have simply had an excuse saying  that it is just the "emotional" affair. YOUR HEAD!What does that mean? They loved each other but never had sex? Come on! Dude who come out with this attitude, is not a husband material DURLINGGG!!!That is something that hard to believe. He may have ended the affair quickly but honestly! GIRLFRIEND!!, he only ended it because you found out about it. Busted!

To my ladies, once he cheated on you, he will cheat on you again. They will never learn from the mistake unless you go and kill the other woman. Then that can be a threaten for him. But what to do, Malaysia still got law. Remember ladies, you simply don't fall in love with someone else then magically epic fall out of love and go back to your partner once he cheated on you. Throw him out he doesn't deserve u. Other woman pain is our own pain. Think carefully before you say yes to someone’s someone.\

Inside My Mind,

Apple Nicol Luna

Why straight men date with ladyboy?

My penis say “YES” but my brain say “NO”. To all men, ask yourself, have you ever across this situation? Most probably out of 10, 5 will answer  yes. Is ladyboy the new “IT” girl in town? When you date with ladyboy,are you gay or weird? The obvious answer is epic NO. Let me explain to you in the simplest words, why men who date transsexuals are not gay.

        1) Every man has their own appetite when it comes to sexuality and emotional. Many straight men are not as straight as they say they are. In contrast that doesn't mean they are gay or bisexual. Just because public LOVE to label people with straight, gay or bisexual doesn't mean everyone fits into those categories. There is no right or wrong neither there is no written agreement mention if you are male and you wearing pink obviously you will fit in to the gay category. It is all assumption. Everyone lives under assumption. In the transgender dating world those terms never match up to the reality.

         2) Just to let everyone know, transgenderism has nothing to do with any man or woman sexual orientation.

       3) Men will seek out ladyboys for dating and long term relationship because they feel that ladyboys are actually more feminine than genetic women. And this really explain why there is an issue that they debate it on live television mentioned about, Transgender women is a threat for biological born women. The facts is, that is right.MORE feminine!

         4) Transsexuals who were born in a male body, but have female brain chemistry that really attract those straight man. Usually it is not a common thing for anyone who wins someone heart with their personalities, the personalities that is come from the inside. You are about to have this relationship with that person soul and personalities. Your face, your body, your hair is all something that I label as extra credits. Lots of time I scream from the top of my lung when saw ugly girl that walk hand by hand with tall gorgeous man. I’m wondering why her? Why not me? I mean like, the effort that I put on heave make up on me, wearing something sexy doesn’t reach the standard of that ugly woman. Then I asked myself, does that man really love her for her face and body? That just stops my words inside my mind. However, it must be known that nobody should be judged brutally epic on their appearance as there are many complicated circumstances from the public.

Everyone has a right to date whoever they want to without any judgment from the public. While some men who date transsexuals may be bisexual, those men who are gay would not be in the slightest interested in dating someone who is NOT actually a man, but a transsexual who embodies everything that is beautiful in a woman.

Men should not approach transsexuals with the expectation that they will always have another penis in the relationship. Trans-sexuality is not a sexual fetish. That is not to say that being transgender is a "bad" thing or mental illness, it simply is a fact of life which has not yet been fully understand by most countries.

Those men who are not afraid to say they prefer to date transsexuals and do not worry about what the public will think about him really deserve my standing ovation. There is a quote by Regina Ibrahim, “Jantan yang sanggup pegang tangan transgender woman in public is what I call Macho Man”. This quote keep on playing inside my head and obviously I use that quote as my principle to search for THE ONE.

For public people, the real person is someone who is not afraid of their sexuality or gender. For them it is all about the ability to treat others around them with full respect. I would like to say to all the men: put away all your assumptions and stereotypes, and keep your mind open and liberal. Dating a transsexual woman does not make your either gay or bisexual, unless you OBVIOUSLY searching for someone with a penis between the legs. Once again a reminder to everyone, please be aware that the greatest sacrifice is made by those who are transgendered and have to struggle with all the mental and psychology abuse from the public. Human beings will always care of each other. Breath under the same air and smile under the same earth.

Inside my Mind,

Apple Nicol Luna

 

Bitches are our new girlfriends?What say YOU?

  Everyone need best friends inside their whole gorgeous EPIC life.We have Carrie,Samantha,Charlotte&Miranda, not forget to mentioned, we also have Regina,Gretchen,Cady & Karen.These are the friendship movie characters that we always admire. Everything that they did we follow.We need friends to share everything about our sex life!our love story!our career problem and apparently our FAMILY PROBLEMS.Friend is the person that you can talk with without BOUNDARIES!We talk,we cry,we hug each other and sometimes we STABBED on each other back!Well darling that is the latest definition of TRUE FRIENDSHIP in the year 2012. After a million years of my observations about friendship according to FRIENDS that I've known, i come to conclusion INSIDE MY MIND that,i can categorize into 3 bitches categories for FRIENDSHIP DEFINITION 2012.

1) Bitches who INBOX YOUR BOYFRIEND in facebook

 She saw me and my boyfriend "IN A RELATIONSHIP" inside my facebook and  now she all in his inbox. Well this thing is a common thing that apparently happened like Jenny Boutique every week 20% sale. It is normal for another BITCHES to inbox your boyfriend in facebook. Do you really think, your boyfriend will only inbox with you and his GUY friends? If you think so, most probably something wrong with your head. Now, bitches are very good in creating the SNATCH GAME. Slowly she will inbox your boyfriend almost about EVERYTHING. Well ladies! I know this game, I CREATED THIS GAME. I was the bitch before and most probably I STILL THE BITCH that always put  the pain in the ass inside you. Well let say, i will list down ALL THE THINGS that BITCHES will inbox to your boyfriend. This list are PARTICULARLY in ORDER. So, there is no skipping step for this BITCH QUESTION INBOX GAME. 

*assume,Apple is the girlfriend*


1st question : Hye, how is Apple?Long time didnt meet her!i miss her a lot!

Facts : MISS HER FACE! Bitches sometimes can be very smart but yet can be VERY STUPID NEVER FINISH too. Why on earth she asked about you through your boyfriend but not through your FACEBOOK INBOX? why your INBOX FACEBOOK cannot access that BITCH facebook account is it?


2nd question : Wow!I can;t believe you and Apple are STILL TOGETHER!both of you are meant to be together!When both of you will settle down?

Facts : Settle down your HEAD BITCH! she is playing the GUILTY PLEASURE GAME with your BOO! *if your BOO is a dickhead, he will reply something like this "Everything was ok,but lately me and Apple having this small conflict.Its a normal thing inside our relationship"
 *if your BOO is a heaVenlyHusBand to be,he will reply NOTHING for that stupid BITCH question! Kepo kan this bitch! EE!GOT OUTSIDE THERE! trust me! GOT! Beware ladies! Plus, It takes two person to tango right?the same thing with cheating,  A BITCH need a DICKHEAD to play the Rihanna song!


3rd Question : Apple are very busy lately, i dont know who to meet up for a coffee and share my problems. I feel so sad and depress!
Facts : Depress YOUR HEAD bitch!you just need his ARM TO LEAN ON then go straight to the bed then HE WILL FINALLY FORGET about Apple right? see! Girls! if you think other GIRLS wont do something like this, TRUST ME its 2012! not 1993 anymore GIRLS!! wake up!! If true this bitch is your true girlfriends,she wont go and make that puppy messages to your boyfriend slash hubby slash your dream man! she will straight go to you or go to another of her girlfriends! come on! Even Ellen Degeneras go to Oprah if is she got problems!


4th Question : NO MORE 4TH QUESTION COZ ALL THE 3 QUESTIONS ALREADY MISSION ACCOMPLISH!


Ladies,beware of this kind of species bitch. Looks like cannot harm you but she can kill you deeply like COBRA POISON! trust me girl! If your boyfriend get a lot of female attention and it is difficult for you to accept it, you should confess him and question him again. Plus, this is where trust comes into the EPIC SCENE. If you can't trust him, then think twice my dear or go and scroll back my articles and read it again and again.Girls will be girls, they usually don't care if there another girl involved in a guys life or not.We only care about shoes and lipsticks! FULL STOP!




2) Bitches who will be best friend with friend who ONLY HAVE CAR

Bitches like this sicken me to HELL! even hell wont accept the facts how much i hate people who be friend with you just because you can DRIVE AND HAVE CAR. Go and get your own LICENSE AND CAR! start collect your own MONEY! There are lots of things that can ensure you to transform that FRIENDS to BESTFRIENDS. The convert thing is not like money whereby you can go to Yahya & Sons Sarawak Plaza Money CHanger and change your money to another currency. No! It won't works like that. But what to do,Bitches will do anything as long as she satisfied with whatever her EVIL side tell her.This thing usually will happen at workplace or even among the circle friends of yours. Confirm got One BITCH like this.  I can guarantee you confirm got!She will be with you and close with you whenever you have your CAR with you only! Try this few things that i list down.

Try to lie just for the sake of this experiment. Let see, how does it work between you and your girlfriend which if the experiment is positive,you can call her YOUR BITCH, but if the experiment is negative you can ME APPLE BITCH SAY SOMETHING WITHOUT THINKING!PERASAN MAMPUS! you got green card from me IF THE EXPERIMENT IS NEGATIVE. Let us start NOW!
*Assume that bitch name is Apple*

1) Try to lie to her and tell her like this : Apple,tonight can you drive?

if Apple answered something like this ;

A The first situation)

Good friend :Apple,i don;t feel like i want to drive. Can you drive tonight and we go for outing?
Apple Bitch : Its ok tonight we stay at home and just rest ok?I don't feel like want to go outing tonight.

Facts : She wont stay at home that night OBVIOUSLY! She will go and text her other friends to pick her up and go outing somewhere without inform you that she is outing. And once her other friends who have car pick her up, THEN THE BITCH EPIC SCENE START. Inside the car, she will talk TRASH about you infront of her NEW CAR BUDDY GIRL BESTFRIEND! This kind of bitch you should pick her up infront of her house,BUT once she put her right leg inside your car, you speed till she fell down and that's the time for you to get rid of her! How we wish kan?Unless Malaysia dont have law,you are allow to do so. But what should you do in reality if this happened to you?

Try not to avoid her. Let her avoid you because this type of species, when she get bored of you she will go and haunt for another new buddy! And they, from the BESTFRIENDFOREVER *siap cium pipi lagi* convert into PEREMPUANHANJING/ BITCHESWHOREWHOSLEEPAROUND! Then you evaluate your friends, who's in who's out,ok ladies? SMILE :)

B The second situation) 

Good Friend : My car is "sick" will be with "doctor" for one month! *do your puppy face*
Apple Bitch : No worries BABE! this month,we use my car.Afterall,long time didn't drive in Kuching.

Then you text her another night

Good Friend : "Babe,its ladies night!Let us hit the club"
Apple Bitch : No i cant, my dad is around.He wont let me drive at night
Good Friend : its ok then, some other night then! :)

Then you text her again 3 days after the ladies night tinggy thing

Good Friend : Apple,i need your help, can you please send me to Green Height Mall to pick up my new Sereni&Shentel
Apple Bitch : *ROLL EYES" just put the phone aside and no reply.

This thing really happened to a friend of mine. Pity my friend and that PRETTY LITTLE BITCH now still contact with my friends because no one want to be with her anymore after everyone know how she be BEST FRIENDS FOREVER siap cium mulut pipi with another friends. In your face bitch.

If you are the kind of friend that will forgive this kind of species, its ok, it will give positive karma to you. But remember,you have to be extra beware with her because she might do the same thing again. Remember, never trust your friends than you trust your own instinct.


3)Bitches who love to borrow your stuff and keep it VIVA FOREVER inside their PLAYLIST

Borrowing is one thing! But always borrow your thing and never give back is a HUGE EPIC BITCH PRIMETIME. This is what i call, VIVA FOREVER AND HASTA LA VISTA babeh to your precious stuff. Bitches who borrow your stuff will EXTREMELY USE THIS DIALOG to make you feel very soft and kindly nice for you to borrow her your thing WALAUPUN the previous thing she borrowed, she havent return back AGAIN!. Here, few lists the huge EPIC SCRIPTED REALITY TV DIALOG that your BITCHES will say to you if she want to borrow your stuff.

1) I'm NOT RICH and don't have money like you.

Facts : SO DONT GO AND STYLE UP URSELF! you should know where you stand and what you should be. Try to be as low profile as possible. Why on earth you want to keep on borrowing something else from someone else just for you to LOOK GOOD! ok! you borrow ONE TIME,can consider as GREEN CARD still with smile, second time? Still can smile! Third time? REALLY? and yet you can reload your smartphone EVERY DAY, but you never think of want to collect your own money to buy your own thing is it? OH! STANDING O from me then! Remember, if your friends got LOTS of pretty and gorgeous stuff, its either they collect their own money OR it is their parents money. Well, if your parents cant afford it, TRY TO COLLECT YOUR OWN MONEY THEN! Change bitch! Don't be BITCH FOREVER! drink Herbalife to remove all that dirty toxic inside you.YET STILL ONCE ALREADY BORROW DON'T KNOW TO RETURN BACK. ish ish ish!

2) Its hard to get my size here in Kuching, You the only who have my size! OR its not easy to find that,only you have it!

Facts : You just lazy enough for not searching the thing that you want so badly! In 2012, you can do lots of things if you BADLY want to buy that stuff. You can go ONLINE shopping.Or you just being very YOURSELF that JUST LOVE to borrow something from someone. Its not healthy, people will label you and talk about. Plus its even embarrassing if people found out that you are wearing something that is belong to someone.

How to ask back the stuff that you had borrowed than NEVER RETURN BACK FROM OTHER BITCH without she SNAP back at you? *i got few tips* Try this! Let me know if it works.

*assume that bitch name is Apple
1) You call that bitch and say something like this, " You know Apple, got someone inside my office always borrow pen from me but never return back!seriously i feel so depress and stress coz i keep on buying new pens and she keep on borrow pen from me whenever i buy new pen. Now i feel like i miss you so much and luckily YOU NEVER BORROW THING FROM ME AND IF YOU BORROW CONFIRM RETURN BACK WITH ME, Oh how i wish you work with me *add with your fake tears voice* "
Facts : This is what i call, THE REVISED PSYCHO GAME! I created this game! it works for me, you can try! But you have to be very clever to pull this game.

2)You can call that bitch and bring her out for dinner and start your conversation like this, "Apple,actually tonight i feel like so not CONFIDENT without my 5 inch YELLOW high heels, i dont know where i put it!I missed place i guess!I just love that heel so much, my dad bought that heel for my auntie before she passed away and my auntie gave it to me for me to take care of it. That heel got sentimental value!!"
Facts : Play the GUILTY GAME! i created this game too! PUT AS MUCH FAKE/TRAGIC/SAD STORIES INSIDE YOUR CONVERSATION SO THAT SHE FEEL GUILTY.


     Well,Bitches are negative species that make you feel unhappy, unhealthy and unequal.Bitches will stress you out, use you and wear you down physically and mentally. Many of us keep bitches in our lives for whatever reasons. We both like and dislike our bitches friends. Well still we need those bitches inside our life because we need to talk trash thing about her whenever we hangout with our another friends. That is how the bitch thing works. The bitch will tell another bitch stories. Well said.

Inside my mind,
Apple Nicol Luna

Dealing with his past dirty little secret and his ex girlfriend

After the break up scene, always stated inside our mind, should I stop the dating scene OR should I keep on haunting for love exactly like the hunger games? If we decided to making the huge come back into the dating scene, should I start with ZERO or SHOULD I STUDY EVERYTHING ABOUT HIS PAST OR HIS EX-GIRLFRIEND?

Who should be blame? Is it the current relationship or the ex? This is what I call, the world war 3! Ladies, whatever things that happened from his past, you should investigate about it AND FORGET ABOUT it once you know everything about IT! IT! IT!.You know why you have to immediately stop thinking about his past and his ex gf? This because, if you keep on playing this Mr Hyde and Dr Jekyl stupid investigate game again and again, it will portrays inside your relationship with him. As bad as it sound, most probably u will become exactly like his past!

Ladies! most probably, he change! Maybe he wants to start a new life, give him time to move on with his past IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM ARE STILL NEW, give him space! BUT! I repeat BUT if this thing keep on going for the next 1 year! Girl I’m telling you! You have to talk with him about IT! There must be HUGE EPIC reason why he keeps on thinking about his past. There are few past dirty little secrets about your man that I know from my observations and my million years of study about human beings. Here it is I would like to share 3 dirty little secrets of every man’s life as a human being!

He’s divorce and have kids

Well honey, every girl have their own dream man but what if your dream man was taken and have kids from his past? Is it a yes to be in a relationship with him or it’s a HUGE MISTAKE or HUGE NO NO to be with him? It depend my dear, not all divorce men are bad! Some of them have to go through that divorce process because of 2 huge reasons *MAYBE*! First reason is obviously he can’t see any future and love unless for the children that he had with his ex-wife. In addition,this happened because he don’t want his kids to witness the EPIC failure inside his marriage and decided to go for the divorce scene.

Second reason, maybe it because of family issue. Sometimes family members tends to kepo-kepo here and kepo-kepo there and try to make things even worst by adding in many gossips and untrue story just to see both of them get divorced. This two reasons are based on true story and this happened to my very own family members. He is my uncle (my daddy’s cousin) and he went through this divorce scene because of too much untrue stories from other family members yet he still in love his wife BUT but the PEST factors that force him to do so.

Maybe you and him will be forever and he will loves you unconditionally, and so does his son. But those feelings of not being his first, keep on haunting you right? I’m sure lot of things playing inside your head like not being his first friend, his first wife, his first soul, giving birth to his first child. Its ok to cry darling and then, it is done and you have to move on. This will involve lots of emotions and millions of forgiveness and grace but there is a lot of joy and fun at the end of the story. Maybe he is truly the man of your dreams. It is hard sometimes, but it is worth it !UNLESS HE”S A DICKHEAD THAT LOVE TO ABUSE HIS EX-WIFE then you know what should you do! J

He dated with “beautiful red flower with thorn”

No one can really answer questions about your boyfriend's sexuality or feelings for you except for himself and although I think you are allowed to feel weird about finding out something like this but it depends. Maybe that particular time he really in love with this beautiful red flower.

Any Male that likes a SheMale is looking “Upstairs and Not Downstairs”. I asked straight guy why would they date with shemale and the feedback from them that I got was something that I can say very much new and not so new reasons. Ladies, I’m asking this question only to the straight man who REALLY REALLY in love with shemale but not only WANT TO HAVE SEX with shemale. That is another code for that kind of man ; “TRANNY-CHASER!”

The straight guy from Malaysia : He date with shemale because he don’t trust woman anymore. Even he was dumped by his 5 years girlfriend cum.1 year fiancee. This reason that make him not to date with girls anymore and loose hope in dating with girls. So he decided to date with shemale for love but not for sex *but both also perform sex!no sex no love lah kan?*. The rest of the story, let it be HIS-tory! J

The straight guy from OUTSIDE MALAYSIA : I asked a few guys that is not originally born as Malaysian but work here in Malaysia or just stop by here in Malaysia for vacay and they responds to me they do like shemale but not gay men because they love to be in a relationship with a beautiful woman that have “extra thorn”. Its a turn on to them and they are attracted to the female face and body where with a gay man they were not attracted to them aesthetically. In addition, they did mentioned that, shemale are very good in giving positive vibes in a relationship.

He was your FRIEND ex-boyfriend

Why can't you date your friend's ex- boyfriend? Are you RELATED with your friend *ROLL EYES!* or THERE IS SOMETHING ON HIS FOREHEAD “I belong to that bitch you sucker PRIMETIME” If the answer is NO then I don’t see any vision or MISSION why you can’t date your friend's boyfriend. Well let say it like this, let go of your ex boyfriend is something that God will say yes to you! THINK POSITIVE and THINK SOMETHING BIG POSITIVE!

What we all need to bear in mind is, we must learn how to let go completely without any second thinking. Some women are so good in pretending that they don't care when their men say goodbye to them , but when the lonely strike her many many times then they start biting their fingers while listening to Someone Like You or Ku Kunci Pintu Hatiku song by Ramlah Ram. Why you need to put on that perfect happy face whereby “Once he was another woman Trash later he will be another woman TREASURE!” SEE! How simple and nice this can be!

Whatever happened in the past, let that thing be HIS-tory!Now you are dating with new man, new life and new love song! Embrace it darling,love him and give your 100% trust to him and MAKE SURE he is giving back the love that you should receive! :)

Inside My Mind,

Apple Nicol Luna

16/4/2012

Does true love exist?

Women everywhere around the earth, wearing the same super gorgeous petite high heels, the same hair hair coloring products, with varieties of ages and backgrounds, are searching for A love that experienced by fantasy character like Carrie! Searching for THE ONE and end up with MR BIG! After the 6 years of pain and tears, at last Big said “YES YOU’re THE ONE”. Well ,we all want a happy ending story like Carrie’s, but how many of us ever experienced the true love? Seriously! Like anyone? Some of us are stuck in a relationship with men who don’t appreciate us as who we are, who treat us like bullshits, take us for granted and lay their hand on us.

Sometimes deep inside my mind, I keep on thinking does true love exist? Does fairy tales really happen? In reality, things that you decide don’t always go according to what you have planned. When you find yourselves stuck and its not working like you had imagined, you need to take an extra ordinary immediate decision for your life.

Dating, tears, loneliness, full with lies, losing self esteem are just stages that we need to go through before AT LAST I FOUND HIM moment. Girls, remember if you EVER felt that you’ve dated too many DICKHEAD and get your heart all messed up and tortured, chances for you to search for true love will be 0% if you keep on lying to yourself. It’s not an easy thing but we need to keep positive on our future. We need to believe that better things will always wait for us in the end of your very own fairy tale story. Throughout my experience and thousand of observations with my girls, I learn that the more you get your heart broken, the more you discover yourself better but sometimes there are a few girls that always keep on killing themselves softly as long as yes!I am in a relationship and that’s matter. Only me and you! No other bullshit. Well, one day you will realize what you want in a relationship and it will pay off if you have the passion and patience inside you.

Girl!Come one!! Loves do exist! As far as I try to calm down myself to search for THE ONE hard for me to say YES TRUE LOVE DOES EXIST. It just takes time to find the person that will make you completely 100 % happy.I always tell my ladies that dating is an elimination process inside the reality game show and there’s a huge prize waiting to be claimed in the end of the game OR YOU JUST WIN YOURSELF A consolation prize!Every dating failure is a journey, and it will lead you to the EPIC whereby every DICKHEAD you meet will eventually lead you to the right one. And remember my ladies, always deal your relationship conflicts with graceful as you can and never waste your tears for DICKHEAD,save if for your wedding or my wedding! J

Inside my mind

Apple Nicol Luna

Baby,can you lose weight for me? what should you do? KILL HIM WITH YOUR CAR or say, I TRY MY BEST HUBBY!

HUGE EPIC QUESTION! Sometimes, when he asked you this question, literally it feels like A BULLET STRIKE STRAIGHT TO YOUR HEART!! What do you do when your boyfriend tells you ‘lose weight’? How do you react when the man of your lifetime wants you to lose weight and is being VERY LOUD ABOUT IT?

Do you need to feel very hurt and don’t know how to react. If he says that physical beauty is important to him because he is very visual so why not you slowly asked him back, “Hubby,can you please go to the gym and get ready that 6 paxs abs and huge arm FOR ME? *do it with roll eyes*, let see what is his responds. If he say yes, WELL GIRL! You have to challenge yourself and start with a proper diet, BUT IF HE SAY NO, GIRL! Slap his face! Why you need to change but when you ask him to change he say NO!Nak suruh neraka turun langit boleh!!

But in a relationship when this issue raised up, you will feel very hurt and rejected. Usually,he feels guilty for telling you this but usually he says that because it is better to be honest and not hide how he feels about this because maybe for this relationship he need to have open communication. Then one part of you still glad that he is open with you because it would be much worse if he didn’t tell you how he feels about this issue and instead started cheating with someone skinnier. Got my point lady? Sometimes boys also need something eye candy for everything, BUT ITS ALL DEPENDS ON THE SITUATION! If he keep on LABELING you or give you names such as, “HUGE PORK”, “BABI GEMUK”, “POKOK BALAK” girl, I am here telling you to slap his face and roll his body under your car. Look at this way, if during your relationship he give and call you names, what will happen, after your dream garden wedding? Start with calling names, then slapping on your face, then start with abuse mind and your body, THEN YOU DIE! Think this way if he keep on calling your names during your dating scene already start.

To my ladies, ask this to yourself, 

1)How do YOU feel about your weight? 

2)Do YOU want to lose weight? 

Listen, if you are happy with your appearance you should not adjusting who you are and what makes you happy. However, you need to ask yourself if this is the kind of sacrifice you are willing to make for the man of your life to be happy, and how this will reflect on your relationship. Like I always mentioned earlier, relationship is about gives and take. COMMUNICATE! Don’t COMPROMISE! REMEMBER? REMEMBER!!!!!! There is a bigger issue behind the question of losing weight,your boyfriend may feel that you don’t respect him and his wishes, and that you are not willing to do your part in a relationship to make it work.

One of the reasons men drift away from a relationship is the loss of physical attraction. Physical attraction and chemistry is A HUGE EPIC ingredient of a healthy relationship. You need to decide how YOU can balance being who you are and pleasing your boyfriend. Let say he need you to lose a bit of weight because he is concerned about your health then you should try and take it on action. Just try and do it for yourself and not some guy who is being mean to you. You are worth it.

 With Inside my mind,

Apple Nicol Luna

Its hard to walk in a single woman's HIGH HEEL! Agree?

  Well, it is sad to be truth that yes i have to admit that it is sometimes,its hard to walk in a single woman's HIGH HEEL. In addition, that is why we really need one of the kind of this 5 inch high heels to make it always special to be single lady.

     Well I’m here to tell you that being single is not THAT BAD. Well,what i can say is, being single it is always about EXTRA PAPER WORK! We single girls have to deal with bullshit lying men that tell you they will call which "NA-AA-AAAAAA"!!!.AND one of the MOST EPIC VALUE THAT MEN always give to SINGLE LADY when They admit that they love you just to get into your PANTS! Wow that is just so CLASSIC

     If you're a single girl of a certain age of huge fucking 25 and live in Kuching City,for sure  you heard some version of the most LAME phrase like ; "There are no good single men living in Kuching! They're all gay or taken!"Are you sure about that? Well that is kind of phrase that I always say to myself but I just could not keep on thinking inside my mind, IS IT THAT BAD TO BE SINGLE IN KUCHING?

       Being single is about 'You're too this' or 'You're not enough that.' , “You just being too pro-love”, or “I THINK YOU ARE LESBIAN” ! Being single is treated as this problem that needs to be solved. AND I AM HERE TO TELL YOU THAT ,There's nothing wrong. Enjoy your single LIFE GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!'"

And here,I will let you know the TWO HUGE EPIC THINGS that your friends always tell you when they realize that YOU ARE SINGLE.

PUT ON SOME ELIANTO, REVLON AND YOUR FAKE EYE LASHES BABY!

More than implying that the search for THE RIGHT ONE is as easy as brushing your elianto Bronzer color onto the cheeks. A girl presents herself according to what she defines as meaningful. Whether her style is very GAGA or very the Siti-ish BUT every woman should be allowed to be herself. There's a DICKHEAD out there who is going to be attracted to her style, her sense and of coz her personalities. If she's presenting herself as anyone other than who she really is, that is so PLASTIC! HELLO plastic is not so in these days ok! SO be real! JUST BE YOU! Men will love you for who you are but NOT WHO YOU WANT TO BE!

OH! HIM? EUW! NO!! HIM? NO! HE’S TOO SHORT! HIM? NO! HIS NOSE SO OILY!

This for sure will portrait that being single is not about being too choosy baby! Out there some of the guys which you always fantasize actually is not your prince charming, might be turn up he can be your BEAST! Is it wrong for you to be choosy? The answer is YES and NO! YES you have to be choosy so that you choose the right one, BUT! It is a NO NO IF! You are 40 years plus plus! I know you will say I am bias, but it is true! AT this stage of age, if you still single, PUT AWAY THAT PRINCE CHARMING BRAD PITT LOOK! Don’t go for good looking guy BUT GO FOR a guy that stable in term of FINANCIAL AND CAREER! Is happened to be he is a divorce IT’S A PACKAGE DARLING! No worries! Ok?

To all my single ladies out there, its not a HUGE SIN for you to be single, IT'S OK! When you single, you even can laugh on them about HOW COMPLICATED IT IS TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP!so, TAKE YOUR TIME LADY, i am sure someone out there are destiny to be YOURS! he will be YOURS! I AM YOURS!

Inside my mind,

Apple Nicol Luna