My penis say “YES” but my brain
say “NO”. To all men, ask yourself, have you ever across this situation? Most
probably out of 10, 5 will answer yes. Is
ladyboy the new “IT” girl in town? When you date with ladyboy,are you gay or weird?
The obvious answer is epic NO. Let me explain to you in the simplest words, why
men who date transsexuals are not gay.
1) Every man has their own appetite when it comes
to sexuality and emotional. Many straight men are not as straight as they say
they are. In contrast that doesn't mean they are gay or bisexual. Just because public
LOVE to label people with straight, gay or bisexual doesn't mean everyone fits
into those categories. There is no right or wrong neither there is no written agreement
mention if you are male and you wearing pink obviously you will fit in to the
gay category. It is all assumption. Everyone lives under assumption. In the transgender
dating world those terms never match up to the reality.
2) Just to let everyone know, transgenderism has
nothing to do with any man or woman sexual orientation.
3) Men will seek out ladyboys for dating and long
term relationship because they feel that ladyboys are actually more feminine than genetic
women. And this really explain why there is an issue that they debate it on
live television mentioned about, Transgender women is a threat for biological
born women. The facts is, that is right.MORE feminine!
4) Transsexuals who were born in a male body, but
have female brain chemistry that really attract those straight man. Usually it
is not a common thing for anyone who wins someone heart with their personalities,
the personalities that is come from the inside. You are about to have this
relationship with that person soul and personalities. Your face, your body,
your hair is all something that I label as extra credits. Lots of time I scream
from the top of my lung when saw ugly girl that walk hand by hand with tall
gorgeous man. I’m wondering why her? Why not me? I mean like, the effort that I
put on heave make up on me, wearing something sexy doesn’t reach the standard
of that ugly woman. Then I asked myself, does that man really love her for her
face and body? That just stops my words inside my mind. However, it must be
known that nobody should be judged brutally epic on their appearance as there
are many complicated circumstances from the public.
Everyone has a right to date whoever
they want to without any judgment from the public. While some men who date
transsexuals may be bisexual, those men who are gay would not be in the
slightest interested in dating someone who is NOT actually a man, but a
transsexual who embodies everything that is beautiful in a woman.
Men should not approach transsexuals
with the expectation that they will always have another penis in the
relationship. Trans-sexuality is not a sexual fetish. That is not to say that being
transgender is a "bad" thing or mental illness, it simply is a fact
of life which has not yet been fully understand by most countries.
Those men who are not afraid to
say they prefer to date transsexuals and do not worry about what the public
will think about him really deserve my standing ovation. There is a quote by
Regina Ibrahim, “Jantan yang sanggup pegang tangan transgender woman in public
is what I call Macho Man”. This quote keep on playing inside my head and
obviously I use that quote as my principle to search for THE ONE.
For public people, the real
person is someone who is not afraid of their sexuality or gender. For them it
is all about the ability to treat others around them with full respect. I would like to say to all the men: put away all your assumptions and
stereotypes, and keep your mind open and liberal. Dating a transsexual woman
does not make your either gay or bisexual, unless you OBVIOUSLY searching for
someone with a penis between the legs. Once again a reminder to everyone, please
be aware that the greatest sacrifice is made by those who are transgendered and
have to struggle with all the mental and psychology abuse from the public.
Human beings will always care of each other. Breath under the same air and
smile under the same earth.
Inside my Mind,
Apple Nicol Luna
