TWO Reasons Why Husband Does Not Want To Have Sex With His Wife

    As wife,it is always our priority to love and satisfies all our husband needs and wants.Everything is about our husband first then I. Well,that is what marriage is about, the passive always treat the active!I have few friends who already get married and sometimes i hang out with them. Not all of them share their marriage experiences with me but got a few of them are willingly to share their marriage experiences with me. Well, when we talk about marriage, especially the newly weds, usually the first issue that will come out is about SEX! Do you happy and satisfied with your husband on bed?Does his skills beyond your expectation? Does the size of his dick really can fulfill your NEEDS? I keep on thinking about this inside my mind, does sex really play HUGE ROLE inside marriage?

    As far as i remember,if no SEX means NO SPARKLE inside marriage. Sex is the key to your happy marriage. Sex will lead you to your perfect family picture frame.Sex inside marriage will give you a chance to enhance your family members and give you experience on how to develop your marriage from two person to 5 person. But yet, sometimes there are reasons why husband does not want to have sex with his wife. Let us see, from the millions of observations that i made, and trizillions of experience that i heard and seen here i must say, i come out with 2 reasons why husband does not want to have sex with his wife.

1. He is in the stage of too depressed and not feeling like he wants to have that BAM BAM AHHH situation. This does happen to men.After all,despite of being extremely macho and ego,YES MEN DO HAVE EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS LIKE WOMEN TOO!This happened especially if they have lost a job or  going through financial difficulty.These two things are the most common thing that MAN ALWAYS THINK ABOUT. Career and money! Because for men, without CAREER AND MONEY are exactly like NO BALLS HANGING UP DOWN THERE!This really can make them feel so insecure about them self.Many times a man's ego get tied into his career and he may be feeling down because of it.Well if your husband is taking medication many times it will decrease a man's sexual appetite and make it more difficult for him to release as well.Sometimes this also happened to men who take too many supplement for his own health and body. Yes,it is good for your health but don't you think, each medication that u take,it really have its own effect towards your internal body?

       This is why, as a wife,you should be the team player when your husband are having this kind of situation. It is so easy to change the mood of your husband if you really know how to play THIS GAME. Come on, as woman,you have the most powerful tools on yourself to TURN HIM UP baby!!Play a role a bit inside your bedroom, create the fantasy among you two,do something that he never experience before. Don't forget to smile and at least show your efforts by putting sexy lingerie for him that night. Massage him slowly on his neck and while you massage him, don't forget to make a bit sounds of "emmmmmmmmmmm" then giggle! Even tough you have to fake it, so? go ahead, at the end of the story, you and your husband will satisfies each other!

2. The husband is no longer attracted to the wife. Many men get turned off by their wives personality or moodiness. He may just have had it with her bitchy, nagging, always putting him down and overall grumpy personality.Sometimes, women always let go of them self after get married.It  is a huge NO NO to not be friend with your EYE-LINER,your MASCARA,YOUR LIP GLOSS, and your PERFUME. Well, i am not here to blame ALL THE THINGS ON WOMEN,but i'm sure you will agree with me if we as woman,putting an effort in something that we want to do,it is our nature as woman to do it. We were born to this world as woman to make everything look perfect and extremely DEMURE.Putting an effort inside your marriage is like a win win situation for you and your husband. At least, you look good for him and he will always forever love you. BUT IF THE DICKHEAD using your LET-GO thing as the excuses for him to CHEAT...GIRLS!! IT"s TIME TO REVENGE! this is the time for you to STAND UP FOR YOURSELF, BEAUTYFIED yourself and let him THINK TWICE why he have to let go of you! That will be his LOSS if he let go of you!Remember ladies,a marriage is about two people working together and helping each other out. If a wife  have a weight problem then the husband should try and help the wife to loose the weight instead of punishing her by not having sex with her anymore.That is so wrong!THAT IS DICKHEAD!You need each other! Do not blame on other party!WORK TOGETHER! COME ON! STOP THE BLAME GAME!Be open to compromise, to suggestions, to experiencing new things. A marriage must involve the win win situation to survive.
 
Remember wife,always make your husband remember,what is the main reason he want to marry you, AND YOU NEED TO ALWAYS REMEMBER why you choose him as THE ONE! 

Inside my mind,

Apple Nicol Luna